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Updated on November 13, 2017 by Pure Flix Editors Pure Flix Editors

5 Ways To Tell When You've Found The Love of Your Life

When it comes to finding “The One,” fairy tales would have us believe it takes very little effort or discernment. Unfortunately, this isn’t always the case. Knowing who God has planned for us requires prayer and reflection. What exactly should you consider when you’re ready to find the right person or take the next step in your relationship? Here are five practical items to check-off when wondering if you’ve met “The One.”

You Know Yourself

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Before you can try to love someone else, you must know your own dignity and worth as a child of God. While the Christian movie, “The Fight Within”, is primarily about a young man’s journey toward God, the film also portrays an inspiring love story between the protagonist, Logan, and his girlfriend, Emma. Emma is confident in God’s love for her and her mission to help children in Africa. Her spiritual self-awareness guides her as she falls in love with Logan, and it doesn’t change, even when Logan doubts God’s love.

You Are Inspired to Be Better

Like iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17, NIV), two people in love inspire one another to be better.

Christian counselor Cathy Patterson-Sterling makes the powerful point that “In God’s plan soulmates grow into who they are meant to be with the advantage of having their life partner. Such individuals are great people who become a unified and unstoppable force together.” It is important to reflect on whether or not your relationship is nurturing your faith or leading you astray.

You're Living in God’s Will

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Psychologist and writer Dr. Juli Slattery suggests that we may be asking the wrong question if we ask, “Have I found the one?” Instead she recommends asking oneself, “Am I in God's will?” If you are in tune to God’s guidance, you can be certain He will lead you down the right path. Similarly, in “The Fight Within”, Emma and Logan pursue God’s will throughout the film, and thus have peace with their relationship, knowing they’re where God wants them to be.

You’ve Given It Enough Time

Debra Fileta, a licensed counselor who specializes in dating, marriage, and relationship issues, tells us to honor the different seasons of dating relationships. Think of dating as a natural progression through the four different seasons – each one offering something new. Keep in mind, this does not mean you’re tied to a one-year timeline, but instead you spend as much time as you need exploring each “season” of your relationship. Spring is a time to get to know one another, while summer is great for digging deeper and revealing true feelings. In fall, work through conflicts, and take winter to “reflect on the state of your relationship… seeking God’s wisdom to discern whether to break up or move forward.”

You’re Willing to Fight for the One You Love

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In “The Fight Within” Logan is a retired Mixed Martial Arts (MMA) fighter, who swears off fighting after a tragic accident with his father. However, Logan agrees to participate in the ring again when his girlfriend is threatened if he refuses. The profound symbolism of the storyline shows that love requires facing adversity for the ones we love.

For more inspiration on knowing whether you’ve found the love of your life, watch “The Fight Within” now streaming at PureFlix.com. You can browse dozens of other love stories at PureFlix.com here.

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